Don’t laugh, but I get extremely randy whenever I have a cold. Am I the only one? Why does this happen? – Mike
Dear Mike,
It seems counter-intuitive to be lookin’ for love when your body is under attack, but you are not alone. When I searched Google for phrases such as “sick and horny” I found men and women wondering why they feel frisky when they’re fighting infection.
How prevalent is it? Darned if I know. What causes it? I don’t know that either. It turns out that there is very little research on immuno-induced friskiness.
But surprisingly, I stumbled across an obscure study from 1995 that touches on your question and suggests that there may be biochemical mechanism for what you experience. Let’s come back to that. First we need to establish some background on your sexy immune system.
Sex and the Modern Immune System
Did you know that men are at higher risk than women for major infections after surgery? Or that women are at higher risk for autoimmune problems? (Offner et al., 1999; Ahmed et al., 1985.)
These immune system differences are related to testosterone – the rocket fuel of reproduction. Other things being equal, more testosterone means less immunity. (Interestingly, the researchers pointed out that men’s increased risk of infection can be reversed by castration. So can your average guy’s reason for living.)
Across many species, males pay a price for the possession of testosterone. (Women have testosterone too, but in lower levels.) The male red grouse, for example, suffers more parasite infections during the spring when his testosterone is elevated (Mougeot et al., 2005). Other bird species suffer similar testosterone-related vulnerability.
There are different theories for the lackluster immune performance of otherwise virile birds. Some researchers believe their bodies must make sacrifices when allocating resources, and so they pay the price of reduced immunity in order to produce secondary sex characteristics like ornamental feathers that attract females. Others believe that testosterone actively suppresses immune function so that only the most viable animals survive long enough to reproduce (Munoz et al., 2008; Roberts et al., 2009).
Whatever the cause, cocks pay a price for virility. (A cock is a male bird. What did you think I meant?)
Human males pay a similar price. Testosterone and the effectiveness of one’s immune system are linked, and women appear to be the beneficiaries – sort of. Pre-menopausal women, with their low testosterone levels, have a stronger adaptive immunity to the common cold than men (Carroll et al., 2010). Unfortunately, there are no free lunches in life. More sensitive immune systems make women more prone to the aforementioned autoimmune problems.
Clearly, sex hormones and the immune system are intertwined. Sex can even boost your immunity because orgasm increases the number of leukocytes in the blood (Haake et al., 2004). It’s all a rich tapestry, to quote a minor character from The Simpsons.
You may have noticed that I am straying from your question, Mike. You didn’t ask me to explain how sex hormones affect immune response, you asked how the immune response affects sex drive.
Welcome to my world. That is precisely the frustration I encountered when researching your question. There is plenty of research on the effects of sex hormones, but very little concerning your question. We’re going to have to dig a little deeper.
Immunity May Be the Sixth Sense
In a saucy editorial (saucy for a professional journal, anyway) Felice Bedford (2011) argued that the immune system should be counted as one of our senses, along with taste, vision, and hearing. She was drawing on a body of research that describes how the immune system detects foreign bodies, sends signals to the brain, and drives behavior.
She makes a compelling case. If a baseball player’s visual system detects a bean-ball headed his way, the player’s behavior will change. He will get out of the way rather than swinging the bat.
In a not dissimilar fashion, a person’s immune system affects behavior when it detects injury or infection (Maier & Watkins, 2000). Rather than communicating via nerve bundles, the immune system uses cytokines, which are messenger molecules similar to hormones, to communicate with the brain.
Researchers Larson & Dunn (2001) discovered that cytokines produce several behavioral changes. Theirs was a very sensuous paper with erotic phrases like this:
“…cytokines may act on brain endothelial cells activating cyclooxygenase, enabling the synthesis of prostaglandins, which could readily cross the endothelial barrier to penetrate the brain parenchyma.”
Ooh, baby! Talk dirty to me.
Their findings suggest that cytokines released during an immune response can bypass normal channels and directly affect the brain. According to Larson & Dunn, cytokines cause the brain to reduce food intake, physical activity, and social behavior. They change sleep patterns, impair certain cognitive functions, and suppress pleasure-driven behavior. They turn us into dopey, unmotivated grumps.
Your question is particularly interesting, Mike, because an increase in sex drive contradicts what we know about the the immune response. An activated immune system typically depresses behavior rather than revving our engines.
But there appears to be an exception. In a dark corner of an arcane 1995 journal article is an inscrutable phrase that may hold the germ of a beginning of a slightly possible answer to your question. After suffering through at least 20 articles on the subject – none of which approached your question – I was plenty intrigued to find this little gem:
“Post hoc tests indicated that male [rats] injected with the high dose of IL-1β had significantly higher PP score than those injected with saline” (Yirmiya et al. 1995).
I was in nerd heaven. Here’s a translation. Recall from your high school biology class that macrophages are immune system cells that cruise around the body, cleaning up messes and attacking troublemakers.
When macrophages become activated, as they do when attacking an invader, they release a cytokine (the aforementioned messenger molecule) called interleukin-1. Interleukin-1 suppresses sexual behaviors in female rats, but has no such effect on males. In fact, high doses of interleukin-1 increased male rats’ motivation to find a willing mate. (Other sexual behaviors remained mostly unaffected.)
You might wonder why interleukin-1 has this unlikely effect on sexual behavior. Is it an evolutionary adaptation that compels male rats to mate one last time before they die? A cunning scheme by which nefarious viruses branch out to other warm bodies? A mere quirk of the rat’s immune system?
Those questions bring us back to square one. I don’t know why the immune system would have that effect. I don’t even know if this explains what you experience when you’re sick, Mike. It certainly doesn’t explain why women in my Google search described a similar experience, why my friends and family denied the experience, or why several of them slapped me for bringing it up.
But it is an indication that the immune response, by way of some complex mechanism, has the potential to be as stimulating as Charlize Theron or David Hasselhoff, depending on your groove.
All I can say for certain is that the immune system is bafflingly complex (to me, at least) and has a permeating influence over our behavior. I’ve done my best, and now I turn the matter over to any adventurous endocrinologists who wish to weigh in, because I give up.
-IS
PS – I’m curious to hear from others who have this experience since the research is so scant. Does infection make you randy, baby? Do share. But keep it clean!
References
Ahmed, S.A., Penhale, W.J., & Talal, N. (1985). Sex hormones, immune response, and autoimmune disease. American Journal of Pathology, 121, 531-551.
Bedford, F.L. (2011). The missing sense modality: the immune system. Perception, 40, 1265-1267.
Carroll, M.L., Yerkovich, S.T., Pritchard, A.L., Davies, J.M., and Upham, J.W. (2010). Adaptive immunity to rhinoviruses: sex and age matter. Respiratory Research, 11, 184-193.
Haake, P., Krueger, T.H., Goebel, M.U., Heberling, K.M., Hartmann, U., and Schedlowski, M. (2004). Effects of sexual arousal on lymphocyte subset circulation and cytokine production in man. Neuroimmunomodulation, 11(5), 293-298.
Larson, S.J., & Dunn, A.J. (2001). Behavioral effects of cytokines. Brain, Behavior, and Immunity, 15, 371-387.
Maier, S.F., & Watkins, L.R. (2000). The immune system as a sensory system: implications for psychology. Current Directions in Psychological Research, 9, 98-102.
Mougeot, F., Redpath, S.M., & Piertney, S.B. (2005). Elevated spring testosterone increases parasite intensity in male red grouse. Behavioral Ecology, 17, 117-125.
Munoz, A., Aparicio, J.M., Bonal, R. (2008). Male barn swallows use different resource allocation rules to produce ornamental tail feathers. Behavioral Ecology, 19(2), 404-409.
Offner, P.J., Moore, E.E., & Biffle, W.L. (1999). Male gender is a risk factor for major infections after surgery. Archives of Surgery, 134, 935-949.
Roberts, M.L., Buchanan, K.L., Evans, M.R., Marin, R.H., and Satterlee, D.G. (2009). The effects of testosterone on immune function in quail selected for divergent plasma corticosterone response. The Journal of Experimental Biology, 212, 3125-3131.
Yirmiya. R., Avitsur, R, Donchin, O, and Cohen, E. (1995). Interleukin-1 inhibits sexual behavior in female but not in male rats. Brain, Behavior, and Immunity, 9, 220-233.






It must not be all that uncommon. Once, I was sick for several weeks with a fever, intense body aches, headaches, and nausea. Naturally, such an illness starts to become quite worrisome, so my husband came along with me to one of my appointments. My doctor asked us how frequently we were having sex during my illness, and we were both like, “WHAT?!” He said, “Oh I understand, but you’d be surprised what people do….”
So maybe an illness that impacts the sinuses in some way (such as inflammation) causes stimulation of the vomeronasal organ? Humans have one, http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1749-6632.1998.tb10595.x/abstract;jsessionid=15EC904B578AE9F1EB43EF03DC5AB0C8.d02t02 although it is generally argued to be vestigial. In other animals, this the organ that detects pheromones and is wired into the hypothalamus which controls reproductive behaviors.
Thanks for the link! I learn something every day.
When I identify the source of this info (from a book in my library}I will reply again to credit that source. To paraphrase the author, our noses actually have erectile tissue which can swell during sexual arousal. Given the close connection of our sense of smell to sex as in attraction,chemistry,mate selection for gene complementarity,and in aversion to incest,the nose is a sexual organ. Perhaps the randy cold sufferer experiences the symptom and cause in reverse — an itchy,irritated,swollen nose leading to arousal. Enjoy it!
nose leads to sexual arousal h
Well that’s interesting. Yeah, for sure, I’d like to know the title of that book.
Or, it could be icky Freudian stuff about about being taken care of during an illness is reminiscent of childhood–ew, ew, ew, ew.
Hey. Take it easy, Stephanie. I thought we were going to keep it clean.
Well, the Nasty Hypothesis gets one point from the commentary over on PT. Boy, this psychology stuff is easy!
No links but I know that feeling.
And I’m female mid 40′s.
My husband and I have both noticed and maybe it is just us but if we are both taking it easy around the house because we feel less than 100% and the kids are off at school because they got over it with one good sleep… Well oppertunity might be a factor…
Opportunity is always a factor.
Adding on to say
Sex seems to either induce the good heavy sleep that seems to be needed to kick a cold, or it gives me an energy boost that helps me get through the day. Either works for me, and it is always worth a try
It is y favorite folk remidy for a cold for sure.
My husband feels very “randy” when he gets sick (the entire time he is sick), whereas I feel “randy” towards the end of an illness. He often mentions that if he stays home while sick, he will “take care of himself” 3-4 times! I always tell him he should save that energy to get over the illness!
I wonder if perhaps (from a psychological point of view), that the rush and good feeling one gets from an orgasm actually helps to heal the body? We always hear reports that smiling and laughing more often can reduce a person’s chances of getting sick – perhaps, this even more heightened positive effect from an orgasm works to heal us better and more quickly? On average, my husband gets over a cold much quicker than me. Just a thought.
Anything is possible in the complexity that is our mind/body connection.
Testosterone lowers immunity. Abstinence increases testosterone. Orgasm reduces it.
Therefore, orgasm boosts immunity. Men’s bodies that linked libido to immune response made more babies… voila!
Women with low testosterone are not significantly helped by orgasm and they DO save their energy for more productive healing body functions.
Well, I feel extremely frisky too whenever I am down with fever and have to get off 3-4 times… I have always wondered if that was normal and I now I guess I am learning that it is!
Every time I get the feeling I might be getting ill my sex drive goes through the roof. I am still a virgin at 23 though; so I literally have a wet dream each of the three nights before I know I’m ill, masty each of those days, and masty several times the day before illness arrives. On the day I feel ill my urge to attract a sexual partner searching grows triple fold, however my will to release my own self dies away.
When not ill I generally don’t pleasure myself and have trouble getting aroused without knowing a girl quite well.
Perhaps the reason we get horney is our drive to begin the mentioned infection combatting process, however I think it is just our body either:
Pushing us to hunt enough food for our sick period.
Getting us to find a partner to cook some eggs.
Or -
Us making a final attempt to pass seed prior to death. I also tend to want to make someone pregnant when I’m ill, not just sleep with them.
Hope this aids some research! Happy to be a participant.
Daniel
Absolutly! I have chronic sinusitus and every time I get sick my sex drive goes through the roof.
I find that everytime I’m il, my sex drive goes through the roof! Pleased its not just me
I have to say I felt weird searching for this topic on Google but apparently it’s fairly common!
I’m glad I found this – I’ve been home sick for three days and I’m not just horny, I’ve been having a very strong craving for physical contact in general. It’s good to know I’m not weird.
I’m a mail 46 and have always been major horny when sick. I have always asked the doctors and they can’t explain it. It’s good to know I’m not alone : )
Hi.. I also felt similar (that’s the reason I searched the subject on the net). I actually feel sexually aroused (both body and mind) when I get a flew. I don’t remember exactly if it’s in the first day or the couple of days after the start (because at some days, I just feel too dead to think or do anything at all)
I think there is important to say that happens with the flew in general:
1- Your whole body becomes more sensitive
2- Your mind get ‘confused’ too or like little ‘hallucinations’.. For example if you watch a movie and go to sleep, you will have the movie play and play again and you’ll feel like it’s real. And when you wake up, even you know it’s a dream, you’ll feel like you were really in that events, usually uncomfortable events, like shooting, escaping, being screamed at, depending on the movie.
I have always felt randy when I get sick. I’m a 30 year old woman. If I stay home in bed with a cold I can sometimes basically masturbate all day. It’s quite amazing how I can have energy for that even when I don’t have energy for much else. Today I have a cold, but I’m trying to work from home. I guess I have gotten off about 4-5 times so far.